BPD Breakup - Con of No Contact Con 'Strategy' To Get Your Ex Back - Pursuit of Recycling Fantasy

BPD Breakup - Con of No Contact Con 'Strategy' To Get Your Ex Back - Pursuit of Recycling Fantasy

A BPD Breakup should not mean continuing to hoover or be hoovered by your Ex to recycle the relationships. The Con of no contact "con" 'strategy' is extremely unadvisable. It strengthens codependency and fails to be an honest description by others of what you are in for. Nothing changes when if you get your BPD Ex back.

You will see the recycling relationships be exactly to true to the original relationship but without re-idealization. This pursuit of fantasy is the opposite of what you truly need - honest, actual no contact and investing in yourself and your own healing and recovery journey.

Promises of marriage when getting the Ex back are extremely rare and manipulative messages of others out there. Your feelings won't change the facts of undiagnosed or untreated BPD. And no, they don't just have an "attachment issue".

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