I Want My BPD Ex Back But He/She Needs To Change

I Want My BPD Ex Back But He/She Needs To Change
Originally Recorded July 28/23
You want your BPD Ex back he or she needs to change and yet in your relationship you tried so hard to change them and it didn't work. You can't change them, only yourself. Wanting your Ex back should be your red flag of how much you haven't changed. Pursuing getting a BPD Ex back is a massive avoidance of self and you don't know how to let it go and have it end because then what you do with yourself? You are trying in vain to recapture the initial idealization phase. That's not possible either. Nor is the BPD Relationship.

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