08 - Understanding Narcissism - Insights into Human Behavior and Motivations
In this episode, we explore the topic of narcissism, a complex and deeply ingrained condition that affects an individual's ability to empathize with others and take responsibility for their actions. We examine the traits and behaviors of true narcissists and why they may be difficult to engage in meaningful self-reflection or discussion about their behavior. Additionally, we discuss why someone might repeatedly read an email that is critical of them or addresses a painful issue, from healthy, non-narcissistic reasons to the unhealthy reasons related to narcissism.
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