Rescue The Fosters: CPS Steals Autistic Child - w/ John Widner

Where to begin... the relationship with my children’s mother was toxic and unstable to start with, one reason I stayed for 14 yrs. In October she had what was to be the final and honestly worst “break” of our relationship. To back up just a sec, note that at this time she had a home, a $3500 a week job, a car….everything. She still CHOSE to sign up on Tinder and various other dating sites to cheat on me. Not the first time. So in reiteration in October (the 5th to be exact) she kicked me out of my own home( with the police later backing her up) moved a man she had barely known a week in within hours of my leaving, along with her sister and brother-in-law who my daughter had accused of sexual abuse. October through December the kids spent most of the time with me because she snapped and ran everybody but the man she met off and fled to a different county with him leaving no forwarding address. She lost her car, bought him one with child support payments, quit her job, and left the kids with me until Jan 1st when she found out from her family that Aydian was spilling on the abuse he and his sisters had suffered.
This brings us to the court drama, Two weeks after she took the kids back my oldest daughter with her had a meltdown in school and this county saw fit to arrest and press charges against an 11 yr old. She reported her mother to CPS, and an investigation was started. I could tell how it was going to go from the onset. And that is exactly what happened. When the caseworker interviewed my ex and her husband? She claimed she married him December 27th but who knows. The caseworker aided her in flipping the accusations on to me and my family, and proceeded to tell me “oh I know emphatically there's no way she did anything, the neighbors said she didn’t and they would tell me if she did”.
Three months of literally being left out of the loop, but being told by my ex she was “ordered” to keep me no contact. With CPS and the court swearing CPS was no longer involved in it, until March 17th 2022, when all are in one room, they say there is an order against me and my family (still no paperwork, no investigation, was told by the GAL she did not have to give me anything). I filed for custody that same day, the following Monday a report is filed in my county, who again with barely investigating or speaking to anyone runs with it, exactly words two diff times “ I know there's no way you could have done anything, you didn’t even have the kids, but I HAVE to cite imminent danger and remove them even though they are already gone. We can’t prove you did it but we can’t prove you didn’t so we have to place you as guilty.
April 29th 2022, the court in my county barred me from my children. About a month later my ex’s county took custody of our oldest daughter. I had no say nor was even notified until 2 weeks after she was gone.