Let’s talk about y’all faves turning “soft life” into another grift. | #TiTalks UNCENSORED

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References:

“Black women started living the soft life. Then came quiet quitting.” by Jennimai Nguyen for Mashable - https://mashable.com/article/soft-life-quiet-quitting-trend

“'Soft Girl': The radical trend millennials love” by Evie Muir for BBC’s The Collection - https://www.bbc.com/culture/article/20221202-soft-girl-what-it-really-means-to-lead-a-soft-life

Real Self-Care: A Transformative Program for Redefining Wellness (Crystals, Cleanses, and Bubble Baths Not Included) by Pooja Lakshmin
at Bookshop - https://bookshop.org/a/21601/9780593489727
at Target - https://rstyle.me/+WPqerXUneW9puROBtT2j6w
at Alibris - https://go.magik.ly/ml/1xiv1/
and at *that place* (which I boycott, but most of y’all still shop there so it’s above me now) - https://amzn.to/3FyIOvP

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Top - https://rstyle.me/+TyEAjtvgJB_7oskznbMLAA
or if you’re in the UK - https://rstyle.me/+gu1xgGjWEdbtWOwbhsToUA

Nose ring - https://shopstyle.it/l/bdw24

Smoke quartz ring is from Wicked Heathens (sold out)

Fingertip and midi rings are by Aziza Handcrafted (Black woman-owned biz) - http://bit.ly/3FQxw79

Other ring is from a brand I can’t recommend. Bad customer service.

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Makeup tings (reminder: buying makeup is fun, but it is *not* self care)

Cheek color is Rituel de Fille Color Nectar Pigment Balm, “Wasp”
Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+YNVvaEZizlaWfssVfyYwyg
Free People - https://rstyle.me/+js9VhNzjbxxjXVMGeFyoeQ
Saks - https://rstyle.me/+pgnsO7LndXLCc4fnTd6WpA

e.l.f. Halo Glow Liquid Filter
direct from e.l.f. - https://rstyle.me/+q9Ejkq_0H2Wtm_ZJEeBqpA
Target - https://rstyle.me/+DGnKqjsgtXzD0KXvorTAig
Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+p05fbKiiLqOiXr9yQ_oJpA
Beauty Bay - https://rstyle.me/+zztP8wWeRAehfcRQsgnylw

Surratt Surreal Skin - https://rstyle.me/+An-T21-w8oA6SmgLgzdYqg

Eye is Surratt Smokey Eye Baton - https://rstyle.me/+L3pQCUIUZhxVSNtj3pk3Ig

Lashes are by Kiss - https://rstyle.me/+xA9r88nReFq-xGKC9LjXsg

Lip is Fenty Beauty Stunna Lip Paint Longwear Fluid Lip Color, “Unveil”
from Fenty - https://rstyle.me/+oHwaMqMtnlZPYWWOgePIOw
Sephora - https://rstyle.me/+x1L0cImUjzQQrwA5MBoQmw
Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+GW6v9G7UwPTAP2BZRJWE0w

*with* Tarte Maracuja Juicy Lip Plump, Tulip
Sephora - https://rstyle.me/+5s62r4c1M25RYH2PTI6JEQ
Ulta - https://rstyle.me/+5N-V1JpkuvAg3fgw4zwdsg

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Camera - https://go.magik.ly/ml/13c7d/
Editing software is Adobe Premiere.

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