IS IT HARDER TO MAKE FRIENDS AS ADULTS?!? Popular Video Revisited! Leaving A-Phi-O Convo 1 Yr Later

Originally uploaded: July 18th, 2021

YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/7xDn0tjMQtQ

Filename: Popular Video Revisited! Dropping APO! Without Screenshots.

Popular Video Revisited! Dropping APO! Without Screenshots!

Headsup: Everyone won't have the same experiences. Try it out.

To See The Main Description, go to the first version of this video:

https://youtu.be/VgS6FPwUk3M
https://youtu.be/VgS6FPwUk3M
https://youtu.be/VgS6FPwUk3M

I decided to make a version without screenshots.

To fam and friends that know me personally. I do curse, like a sailor. If you don’t like this don’t watch. I hold nothing back and you will either love my bluntness or hate it.

REQUESTED: People are still interested in this shit a year later. Seriously thanks for watching the first rounds of video. I did not think people would reach out to me, ask for a follow up and all that jazz. Since I’m in several friend groups on Facebook that asked about making friends as an adult, I answered those questions and used my experiences in Alpha Phi Omega as an example. This shows me to always share your story, you never know what could happen out of it.

Be careful who you let in your circles. Toxic people and energy can be the reason you're not as successful as you like to be or want to be. That's why they always say you are the average of the 5 people who you hang around with; The people you surround yourself with, you become. We are all energy. If you subject yourself to peers who are negative, insecure or destructive, it will affect you. Regardless of your strength as an individual, you are not immune to a constant surrounding of negative energy or bad influence. Not only are you the average of the FIVE people you surround with, it’s way bigger than that. You’re the average of all the people who surround you. So take a look around and make sure you’re in the right surroundings. 3b. The dream in your heart may be bigger than the environment in which you find yourself. Sometimes you have to get out of that environment to see that dream fulfilled. It’s a fact of life that some people hold us back, while others propel us forward. For example: For example, you might have a set of friends who are fun and who you enjoy getting lunch with, but they might not understand your goals and desires. As a result, they're more likely to be a fun diversion from your business than an engine that pushes it forward. 4. If you are watching this and you are dealing with mean grade school, h.s. or college girls (or even a toxic work place) it's just a phase. At some point you won't ever have to see these people ever again. As an adult it's bad that bullying still happens but it does. 5. Just because you got it going on doesn't mean you have to be a doormat for anyone. Nor should people make you feel bad for the success you are experiencing. Maybe you can in turn be an inspiration for them to have successes in their own life. Go forth and keep experiencing abundance. 6. Some friendships and relationships are not meant to last forever. Some only last for a season and a reason. Some people you haven't seen for years and you can pick up right where you left off.

Part 1: 0:24.53-.42.16, give or take (Original Video Here: https://youtu.be/484BxZZHdJo)
Part 2: 24:44-42:02 (Original Video Here: https://youtu.be/8UYCZNymplM)
Part 3 : 42:02- MOST PEOPLE SHOULD START HERE. This video is already long enough. Lmfao.
43:07: IS IT HARDER TO MAKE FRIENDS THE OLDER YOU GET?

44:11-51:45: Why I still think most of my beloved APO bros who posted the black box pretending to be on the team don’t give two f*****. My blunt stance. Why I will never re-join Alpha Phi Omega. (Some people say never say never, but y’all don’t know how stubborn I am. I have joined other orgs as an adult. I understand that everyone won’t be close to everyone & you can’t completely avoid cliques. I’ve felt more appreciated, welcomed and more like home elsewhere. I don’t care for awards and recognition, just really looking for an opportunity to trust a group outside my close friend circle fully and deeply again, and I haven’t felt this way in a long time.)

Articles I was referring to:

https://aleshapeterson.medium.com/this-is-the-side-of-being-an-extremely-ambitious-entrepreneur-which-rarely-gets-talked-about-ff0e2bd5582b

https://aleshapeterson.medium.com/4-reasons-why-people-hate-on-your-success-and-why-you-should-be-successful-anyways-c0a91fc1e15b

54:11-1.09.56 marker: I talk about mean sorority girls here (Pre APO story).

Screenshots: 1:01 Marker on 1st version of this video. https://youtu.be/VgS6FPwUk3M

1 hour 10 sec marker: APO stories, really juicy, some girls prolly deserve to get called out (give or take, I think it officially starts around 1:09.56 marker). More f****** shit to get into. Why I now believe I was never truly an APO brother. My transparent thoughts on why I never truly fit in w/ the org despite my best efforts (& I do mention law of attraction & setting intentions here).

1:16.49 to the end of the video: I talk about abundance, wealth creation, & how finding friends on your same wavelength really is a gamechanger!