Object Relations: Fear Of Success Pt. 6
Blog: https://psychreviews.org/object-relations-fear-of-success-pt-6/
Many people want success, but they are not sure about the work involved. In some cases it’s wise to just start, but momentum is hard to build and it’s easy to quit. There are also questions about what is authentic when one has been on a wrong path with a goal or they feel that they are simply making another person’s dreams real but not their own. The reality in psychology is that it all starts with a basic autonomy of a self that can make authentic choices, and no matter what, there will always be some exploration, trial and error, before finding a sliver of authenticity. That sliver involves some feeling in the body that a person likes or dislikes, and is not covered over by a disguise.
Intro: 0:00
Playing and Control: 0:23
Shame: 10:57
Approach and Avoidance Goals: 33:33
Self-regulation and Magical Thinking: 43:02
Repetition Compulsion: 58:35
The Default Mode Network and Psychedelics: 1:09:19
Pictures, music, and video from Pexels, Pixabay, YouTube, and Wikipedia.
Resources:
The Language of Winnicott: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9781855754324/
Psychology of Shame: Theory and Treatment of Shame-based Syndromes: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9780826166722/
Cognitive Therapy: Basics and Beyond by Judith S. Beck: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9780898628470/
Handbook of Approach and Avoidance Motivation by Andrew J. Elliot: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9780805860191/
Your Heart's Desire - Sonia Choquette: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9780749920128/
Kuehner, C., Huffziger, S., & Liebsch, K. (2008). Rumination, distraction and mindful self-focus: effects on mood, dysfunctional attitudes and cortisol stress response. Psychological Medicine, 39(02), 219.
Valim CPRAT, Marques LM and Boggio PS (2019) A Positive Emotional-Based Meditation but Not Mindfulness-Based Meditation Improves Emotion Regulation. Front. Psychol. 10:647
Skinner, B. F. (1992). “Superstition” in the pigeon. Journal of Experimental Psychology: General, 121(3), 273–274.
Ogden, T. H. (2010). On Three Forms of Thinking: Magical Thinking, Dream Thinking, and Transformative Thinking. The Psychoanalytic Quarterly, 79(2), 317–347.
Malancharuvil, J.M. Projection, Introjection, and Projective Identification: A Reformulation. American Journal of Psychoanalysis 64, 375–382 (2004).
Repetition, the Compulsion to Repeat, and the Death Drive - M. Andrew Holowchak and Michael Lavin: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9781498570503/
The Self-Sabotage Cycle: Why We Repeat Behaviors That Create Hardships and Ruin Relationships - Stanley Rosner, Patricia Hermes: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9780275990039/
Psychedelics and Psychotherapy by Tim Read, Maria Papaspyrou, Gabor Maté: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9781644113325/
-
2:15:14
Psych Reviews
6 months agoObject Relations: Fear Of Success Pt. 7
291 -
3:32:48
Due Dissidence
10 hours agoMorning Joe and Hillary SMEAR Students, DNC Fears CONVENTION CHAOS, Carville MELTS DOWN Again
13.8K53 -
1:22:39
The Late Kick with Josh Pate
8 hours agoLate Kick Live Ep 512: Portal Winners & Losers | SEC Truths + Questions | Portal Winners & Losers
13.2K2 -
1:50:27
vivafrei
14 hours agoEp. 210: Stormy Gags on Lies! Hunter Not Immune! AstraZeneca Pulled & MORE! Viva & Barnes
108K168 -
1:50:54
Jewels Jones Live
2 days agoUNDERSTANDING NEXTGEN MARXISM | A Political Rendezvous - Ep. 76
47.5K38 -
8:22:56
Akademiks
1 day agoAll Will Be Revealed! Drake vs Kendrick vs The Riddler. Who Lied, Who Snaked, Mole Finally Revealed!
137K97 -
1:08:38
Russell Brand
2 days ago“You’re Going To Get KILLED!” Mike Benz EXPOSES CIA Secrets Like NEVER Before - Stay Free #363
370K779 -
1:35:13
Roseanne Barr
2 days ago $74.67 earnedKeep My Name Out Yo M*Therf*Cking Mouth! | The Roseanne Barr Podcast #47
176K412 -
1:19:00
Steven Crowder
3 days agoBradley Martyn and Vitaly's Hollywood Pedo Bust Goes Wrong! Guests: Alex Rosen | Vivek Ramaswamy
675K1.09K -
53:40
The Osbournes
5 days ago $1.11 earnedWould You Eat a Monkey? Osbourne's Wildest Meals
78.2K16