If You Want To Create Better Relationships With Men Stop Calling Masculinity "Toxic"

If you want to create better relationships with men you need to stop calling masculinity "toxic" because with this one word you are disregarding a really important part of him and he will resent you for it (even if it's unconscious!).

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When I work with a female client who wants to attract a new man into her life, the first thing I look out for is if her language in any way reflects limiting beliefs about men.

When women have negative core beliefs about the masculine, they frequently say things like:

- "Men are just less emotionally intelligent"
- "I always have to do everything"
- "Men just don't do the inner work"
- Aaaand of course ... "He was displaying all these toxic masculine behaviours!"

I understand what you want to express with this - but please stop saying that masculinity is "toxic"!

This phrase acts like a man repellent because you are generalising about his gender, you imply that something is wrong with masculinity in itself and unfortunately it's too often an excuse for women to not be honest about how they are contributing to relationship problems (for example instead of admitting to bad boundaries, let's just rather focus on his toxic masculinity!).

I want BOTH men and women stop labelling each other with negative terms and instead focus on truly understanding each other - then we ALL get what we want and we can stop this unnecessary gender war that is costing us all so much energy!

This has been one of the most important game changers in my marriage - because my husband Matt knows that I fundamentally support and admire his masculinity (his inner core) he's showering me with love, affection and attention ... and that just feels wonderful!

*Topics:*

00:00 If you call masculinity "toxic", he'll resent you
00:35 How we perpetuate the great gender war
02:30 What to do instead
03:33 Masculinity & Femininity is divine

*About Veronika Amaya:*

✨ Dating & Relationship Coach ✨ Founder of the Conscious Relationship School ✨

Veronika helps men and women build lasting relationships filled with respect, understanding and love. She has been working as a Coach and Conscious Relationship Teacher since 2019, helping thousands of people overcome their dating anxieties, resolve toxic relationship patterns and keep attraction alive through healthy polarity.

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