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there's a term out there for these ladies, and it's called
"monkey bars.'" They're holding onto one dude while
swinging over to another dude, and they keep doing this
until they feel comfortable and secure enough that the
new guy will take care of them like the last one did. It's
like they're testing the waters, making sure they've got a
good simp ready to step up to the plate. And that, my
friends, is where the problem lies.