kid are products of their environments

As parents, we have more influence over our children than anyone else. That's because our kids are products of their environment. They learn from us how to speak, how to interact with others, and how to see the world around them.
So if we're always negative, our kids will be too. If we complain, our kids will learn to do the same. In short, the environment we create shapes our children more than any other influence in their lives.
That's why it's so important to create a positive environment for our kids. When they see us being positive and upbeat, they'll learn to be the same way. They'll learn that it's okay to make mistakes and that it's possible to recover from setbacks.