Entire families didnt dissapear in Lahaina

This explanation doesn't stand. Its a BS explanation and i can prove it. How? With the list of people missing: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1WAA1iFGIOT7H3xJcr5aRgqVbUdwPnJkBolBc-eFFlJE/htmlview#
There arent entire families gone. Sure, there are some families gone, for example 3 members but anyhow the family is bigger than 3 members! You can check the list. Most of the people have different family names. And anyhow, Lahaina residents are like a big family and they care about anyone.
Supposedly and here is the kick. It will sound bad but these people probably dont want to admit reality first that some are dead and last that some are not dead and they didnt do enaugh to go look for them.
The fire the blaze just shocked them and like Holocaust victims they dont want to believe it. But of course no one will say those things because its supposedly not right to pick on the people.