The Loss
[Reflective & Contemplative Poem Collection] -
‘The Loss’ is a poem of memory and sharing to try and support another in a journey we all experience – the passing and loss of a loved one.
It has been a healing creation for me and I hope it will be meaningful to those who are just going through the experience of a death and grieving. My father used to guide those freshly grieving to ‘Be Gentle With Yourself’ and I feel there is great wisdom in the suggestion.
The poem was inspired by the news of a friend’s father’s passing on Father’s Day 19th June 2023. I hope it is a benefit and comfort to her and all those hearing it whether grieving a parent or other loved one.
As I listen to it myself, I find both a sadness and a comfort in it. My own father’s 8th death anniversary is the 2nd August 2023 and I have chosen this occasion to make the video public.
I dedicate it to all those who have gone before us and also the people that remain to grieve them.
It will form part of the 'Reflective & Contemplative’ poem collection, which contains ‘an Analytical and Pensive blend of observational ditties and experiences.
Much love.
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Many thanks,
Louise.
Poem wording -
The Loss
It’s happened … as you knew it would.
It’s over … they have gone … above.
Left you … in heartache and memory.
Numbed … what now is to be?
A tragedy in your family.
The present not currently easy.
The future looms dull, it seems.
Surreal, as you live in the dross.
Flat … like you don’t give a toss.
You have just suffered … a life’s loss.
Grieving … no right or wrong way.
Memories flood in …. give sway.
Going through the motions on funeral day/s
Some recollections of it will stand out,
Others will be hidden in a haze.
Possibly for weeks you will count the days.
The fact that others’ lives seem normal,
‘untouched’ will somehow strike you and amaze.
As you realise that in fact …
You are currently existing in a part daze.
What can be said, as tears will be shed….
Can give confirm and also seem meaningless.
That stated … the sharing is a balm
and somehow helps to soothe and calm.
“Sincere Condolences, I am very sorry for your loss.”
Guidance … there is little for now …
You just, will live it, however it comes.
Let it in and pass … as much as you can.
Just “Be Gentle with Yourself” …
as much as you are able
Louise
19-06-2023
Reflective & Contemplative Poem Collection
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