You are obligated to look your best for your spouse

Nowadays we have largely lost what is means to be married, and how that necessarily differs from being boyfriend/girlfriend. Arguably, this is because of how far our culture has strayed from God. But even if you’re a non-believer, this is still truth: Normal aging aside, your spouse desires and deserves to be attracted to you—nor is he or she obligated to remain attracted to you, even when you don’t take care of yourself. While it’s true that your spouse is morally (sadly, not legally) obligated to stay with you “for better or worse” (barring abuse or adultery), you should still do everything in your power to not needlessly make it “for worse.” Respecting your body is respecting your spouse. And it goes beyond the superficial; it’s an investment in your future together, and a willingness to do all you can to make it to where he or she isn’t forced to be your caregiver, all because you made yourself sick.
This is not a backwards, superficial, dated, or anti-woman take. This is objective truth.
To argue the alternative to anything I’ve said here, is to argue for your own disease and debasement.
If you want to stay selfish and self-destructive, stay single.Show more

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