Want people to like you? Want more friends? Stop complaining.

Complaining about everything under the sun, tossing emotional hand grenades at people and filling your spare time with mindless, incessant verbal vomiting of your life's problems and inequities is not helpful. Taking action against things that you feel are unfair is helpful. Changing things you can change is helpful. Accepting what you can't change is extremely helpful. Finding joy and satisfaction in life despite what you don't have is the way to go. Count your blessings. Enjoy being alive. It's not going to last as long as you would like.