Why Bother Making Effort When You Are Unconditionally Accepted?

Self Esteem comes from encountering the real World, it is trial by Fire, experiencing people, failure and getting back up again.
A coach can't just tell and athlete he is great, the athlete has to train, measure distance, time themselves in order to know they are progressing and becoming great.
Balanced Patriarchy and Matriarchy hold the keys to a well functioning world,. In this video we discuss how unconditional acceptance doesn't bear the fruit we thought it would and the evident over confidence, low emotional and Spiritual intelligence there seems to be occupying the many corridors power at the moment.