The Truth About Sex
My girlfriend https://www.instagram.com/naemapierce/ and I https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson/ just went on a romantic Hawaiian adventure... and things DID NOT go as we planned... Here's the truth about sex:
SEX FACTS:
- Sometimes sex is amazing
- Sometimes sex is painful
- Sometimes people get yeast infections (all body types)
- Sometimes people get injured during sex
- Sometimes feelings get hurt during sex
- REAL sex does NOT look like what we've all seen in porn
- Fantasies are normal
- Desire is normal
- Lack of desire can be normal too
- It's okay to be attracted to any gender
- Orgasms are normal
- Squirting orgasms are normal
- It's also normal to not have squirting orgasms
- It all depends on who you are, and the context you're in
True facts.
What should you know about sex?
According to Emily Nagoski (and I agree), THE MOST POWERFUL THING YOU CAN DO TO IMPROVE YOUR SEX LIFE is to love and accept your sexual self exactly as you are, right now. Shame is one of the biggest killers of desire and arousal. F*ck shame. Love yourself. Love your desires. I know it might not feel easy at first, but I promise it gets easier to do with practice.
If it feels challenging to love something about your sexual self, try to start with something simple. Do you love your skin? Your eyes? Your desires? The fact that you have a heart that is beating and keeping you alive? Start with loving yourself, and building upon that. The book "Come as You Are" is an incredible resource that I highly recommend.
Resources:
IF YOU HAVE A WOMB and you want to love your menstrual cycle and thrive in harmony with the natural seasons in your body, connect with Naema here:
INSTA: https://www.instagram.com/naemapierce/
WEB: https://www.naemapierce.com/menstrual-freedom-map
IF YOU WANT TO:
🔺 Overcome premature ejaculation
🔺 Experience multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms
🔺 Master the art & lifestyle of semen retention
Connect with me here: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/links/
And on insta: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson/
One of the most important things you should know about sex is that REAL sex looks almost nothing like what we've all seen in porn. Let's be real... we've all watched porn... and we've all probably tried things in porn with our partners. That's okay, but the danger comes in when porn starts to influence what we think "normal sex" is... ESPECIALLY if we have never had a positive example or experience of sex that happens with deep connection, patience, tenderness and full presence.
Sex facts true or false:
- Porn is a healthy example of what real sex looks like (FALSE)
- You should have orgasms every time you have sex (FALSE)
- Men should ejaculate every time they have sex (FALSE)
- Sex should only be between a man and a woman (FALSE)
- Sometimes people get STIs and that's okay (TRUE)
- Sometimes sex doesn't feel good, and it's okay to stop (TRUE)
- Acting out fantasies with your partner can bring you closer together (TRUE - when done with intention and care)
- Accepting yourself right now, just as you are, is the number one thing you can do to immediately improve your sex life (TRUE)
IF THIS VIDEO HAS BEEN HELPFUL FOR YOU... Please share it with a friend. I've got all sorts of good sex info to share... and some wild personal stories too. If you have any requests for personal sex stories (I've explored a lot), please share them with me too.
AND FINALLY...
PLEASE SHARE A PERSONAL SEX EXPERIENCE you had that was less than ideal as a comment under this video... that way we can normalize the truth about sex: it can be incredible, AND sometimes it doesn't feel good... and that's okay. :)
Thank you friend!
Chapters:
00:00 - Intro
00:24 - Hawaiian Vacation
00:46 - The Truth About Sex
01:48 - Injuries & Problems in Sex
02:24 - MY REQUEST FOR YOU
03:13 - Please Share Your Sex Story
03:40 - Hawaii Helicopter Footage
See you next time!
-Taylor
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