Why You Don't Feel Heard and What To Do About It

Not feeling heard? Feeling misunderstood? These are common frustrations. We've all been there, but if you frequently don't feel heard, there may be a bigger problem. Here are the reasons why you don't feel heard and what to do about it!

Chapters:
1:25 Is it me, or is it them?
2:00: It's Them
3:07 Is It me
3:37 Communication Errors
4:17 Being Loud Or Aggressive
4:39 Whining
4:57 Over-vulnerability
5:32 Overly-demanding
7:41 Childhood experiences
9:04 Blind Spot
9:56 Bonus
10:39 Repeating Yourself
11:11-Getting Someone To Listen
11:41 Being A Better Listener

More on Reflective Listening: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rBXJwwX1WcA

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