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What should I do when a loved one deconstructs (leaves the faith)? with Alisa Childers
This internet age is full of trends. One of the latest is the trend to “deconstruct” one’s beliefs about Jesus and Christianity. If someone you love has done this, how should you respond? Alisa Childers joins Frank on this Livestream to offer insights on how you can make progress, especially when your loved one now thinks you are “toxic” and seems resistant to reason. Bring your questions!
⏱ 𝗧𝗜𝗠𝗘𝗦𝗧𝗔𝗠𝗣𝗦/𝗦𝗘𝗚𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗦 ⏱
5:29 - Intro: Do you know someone leaving the faith.. or maybe it’s you?
7:24 - What is the UNSHAKEN Conference?
13:06 - What are the top reasons people are walking away from the faith?
15:06 - Why most Deconstructed people won’t believe even if we show them Christianity is true?
22:04 - How to approach deconstructed people that think that Christians are toxic and think there is no evidence?
27:34 - How do I do if it’s my husband who is deconstructed and is blaspheming before me every day?
30:38 - How do I get my family back to orthodox Christian values?
34:30 - What is the best way to explain the deconstruction of family members to my children?
39:32 - How to know if my friend is going through a hard deconstruction?
50:53 - My brother is deconstructing and it seems to be evidence-based. How do I tackle this?
53:14 - What advice would you have talking to somebody who is going down the path of deconstruction without calling it that?
1:00:39 - Should I be dating if I am deeply questioning my faith while pursuing a biblical scholarship at school?
1:02:00 - My son was raised as a Christian. He married a person who convinced him that his beliefs were wrong and now raised their son with no belief in God. How do I handle it?
1:03:19 - My ex-wife turned her back on Christianity/Biblical. How can I talk with my two sons about holding onto their faith and not following their mother's destructive path, while not speaking against her?
1:09:17 - What do with my son that is deconstructed but keeps coming up with questions?
1:23:13 - What do think about a teenager who doesn’t want to offend any friends at school by excluding their “beliefs”?
1:25:42 - How to tackle someone who says they would be Christians if there were evidence but they think there is non?
1:30:58 - What are the biggest reasons for deconstruction?
1:37:34 - What’s the difference between deconstruction and questioning my faith?
1:41:00 - How to help a friend who says she is deconstructing her faith because she sees so much evil in the Bible?
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