INTROSPECTION - when you're asked to do things THEY like but you don't. Then get called "impatient".

There is a special breed of people who will call you impatient when they'd want you to do some things they like. Some may impose this on you, some will just like you to do them. Especially if that is part of their hobby, or a great life passion. Let my introspection shed some light on this. It does have a link to feeling abandoned, seeking attention and like-minded people, not feeling validated.