Biblical Advice on Forgiveness from David (2 Samuel 16:9-13)

The way David responds to Shimei provides wonderful biblical advice on forgiveness. The account reveals what David said to his men that allowed him to respond so patiently to a man who was mistreating him unjustly. Was David always this patient? Not in the account with Nabal! What took place in David’s life that caused him to respond to Shimei so much differently than he responded to Nabal?

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00:00 Biblical Advice on Forgiveness from David
14:51 Lesson One: We can forgive easier by thinking about (Part one) God’s ______________________.
21:36 Lesson One: We can forgive easier by thinking about (Part two) God’s ________________ to us in return.
36:46 Lesson One: We can forgive easier by thinking about (Part three) ______ ________.
46:47 Lesson Two: Christ’s ______________________ is greater than David’s.

Family Worship Guide

Directions: Read the following verses and then answer the questions:

Day 1: Psalm 10:14, 39:8, 2 Samuel 16:10-12, Job 2:9, Luke 6:22, Hebrews 10:34—Why did David twice say that God told Shimei to curse? Why do you think this encouraged David? How can thinking about God’s sovereignty make forgiveness easier? Why did David think God would repay him? How can God’s goodness when we are mistreated make forgiveness easier for us?

Day 2: 1 Samuel 25:8-12, Luke 7:47—Can you think of individuals in Scripture, besides David, who were kind to those who mistreated them? Did God seem to reward them? Why do you think David treated Shimei differently than he treated Nabal? How does thinking about our sins make forgiveness easier?

Day 3: 2 Samuel 19:16-23 cf. 1 Kings 2:8-9, Hebrews 6:17—Why did Shimei hurry to meet David and 2 Samuel 19? How did David respond to Shimei? Why do you think David went back on his forgiveness before passing the throne to Solomon? In what ways is Jesus’s forgiveness greater than David’s?

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