"The Narcissistic Family" - How The Reality of This Type of Family Life Impacts You

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"The Narcissistic Family" - How The Reality of This Type of Family Life Impacts You
The Impact of Narcissistic Parents and How to Overcome It

Complex Borderline Personality Disorder: How Coexisting Conditions Affect Your BPD and How You Can Gain Emotional Balance. Available at:
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Growing up with narcissistic parents is not easy. It is a fallacy that narcissistic parents breed narcissists. This is not the common case. Actually, children of narcissistic parents tend to be quite different, and we’re going to discuss that in this video and how you can help yourself if you’re a child of a narcissistic parent. If you haven’t seen part 1, you may want to go and check it out before diving into this one, as I explored the environment and family rules and messages and how they’re exhibited.

Adult children of narcissistic parents tend to have the following personality characteristics, beliefs, and views to different degrees. I’d like you to go and get a piece of paper or something you can mark off how much these characteristics, beliefs, and views are a part of you. As I go through these, rate each from 0 to 5; 0 being nothing like me and 5 being absolutely like me.

Self-sacrifice
Self-blame
Buried by guilt
Compulsive caretaker
Conditional Approval
Perpetual perfection
All mistakes and all consequences
Gratitude giver
Internalized narcissism
Hero/zero
Need to be needed
Emotional Minimization
Dirty competition
Diffuse boundaries

When you look over your ratings, take notice of those rated with a 4 or a 5. These are likely to be some pretty intense traits that influence how you live your life and see yourself and others. You can get control over these things, and do it differently.

Please remember, we’re all different in how our environments impacted us. This is why it’s so important to understand what makes up our personality, beliefs, and views so we can grow and develop from the knowledge. Remember, knowledge is empowerment.

Daniel J. Fox, Ph.D., is a licensed psychologist in Texas, international speaker, and a multi-award winning author. He has been specializing in the treatment and assessment of individuals with personality disorders for over 15 years in the state and federal prison system, universities, and in private practice. His specialty areas include personality disorders, ethics, burnout prevention, and emotional intelligence.

He has published several articles in these areas and is the author of:

Complex Borderline Personality Disorder: How Coexisting Conditions Affect Your BPD and How You Can Gain Emotional Balance. Available at:
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Antisocial, Narcissistic, and Borderline Personality Disorders: A New Conceptualization of Development, Reinforcement, Expression, and Treatment. Available at: https://tinyurl.com/2anv8dww

The Borderline Personality Disorder Workbook: An Integrative Program to Understand and Manage Your BPD. Available at: https://goo.gl/LQEgy1

Antisocial, Borderline, Narcissistic and Histrionic Workbook: Treatment Strategies for Cluster B Personality Disorders (IPBA Benjamin Franklin Gold Award Winner): https://goo.gl/BLRkFy

Narcissistic Personality Disorder Toolbox: 55 Practical Treatment Techniques for Clients, Their Parents & Their Children (IPBA Benjamin Franklin Silver Award Winner):: https://goo.gl/sZYhym

The Clinician’s Guide to Diagnosis and Treatment of Personality Disorders: https://goo.gl/ZAVe9v

Dr. Fox has given numerous workshops and seminars on ethics and personality disorders, personality disorders and crime, treatment solutions for treating clients along the antisocial, borderline, narcissistic, and histrionic personality spectrum, emotional intelligence, managing mental health within the prison system, and others. Dr. Fox maintains a website of various treatment interventions focused on working with and attenuating the symptomatology related to individuals along the antisocial, borderline, narcissistic, and histrionic personality spectrum (www.drdfox.com).

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