When the Negative Always Seem True & It's Fallacy

When the Negative Always Seem True & It's Fallacy
Negative Always Seem True

Complex Borderline Personality Disorder: How Coexisting Conditions Affect Your BPD and How You Can Gain Emotional Balance. Available at:
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Embracing a positive outlook and managing your mental illness often feels like an insurmountable mountain that everyone with BPD, and other types of mental illness, has to contend with. I understand the fear of doing things differently. The anxiety and sadness about the world not being the place you expect it to be. Know that your BPD uses this against you. It uses your Complex BPD beliefs, behaviors, and patterns to keep you locked in place with a hazy outlook for a different future, and this haziness keeps your BPD strengthened and in control.

The overconfidence in the negative is like an old blanket wrapped around you, perhaps by someone you thought loved you, someone you wanted to love, or perhaps you put on yourself. I understand that there is loneliness under the blanket at the base of this mountain. Know that you’re not alone in your effort and challenge. Others stand at the base of this mountain of change and feel they can’t do it. This is a big part of what keeps your BPD in place. Whether that blanket is the voice is mom, dad, brother, sister, cousin, friend, lover, or yourself you have to push it aside and take that first step up that mountain.

Push back by challenging the negative. When you sense the negative creeping in, like a secret spider on your soul or a snake around your neck, capture that thought and challenge it with positive and kind pushbacks. You’re BPD tells you can’t and don’t deserve love, push back by recognizing the love, compassion, and big heart you have to give to a worthy other. Your BPD tells you you’re worthless, push back by recognizing the skills you have, how you help others, or go out and perform random acts of kindness.

Daniel J. Fox, Ph.D., is a licensed psychologist in Texas, international speaker, and a multi-award winning author. He has been specializing in the treatment and assessment of individuals with personality disorders for over 15 years in the state and federal prison system, universities, and in private practice. His specialty areas include personality disorders, ethics, burnout prevention, and emotional intelligence.

He has published several articles in these areas and is the author of:

Complex Borderline Personality Disorder: How Coexisting Conditions Affect Your BPD and How You Can Gain Emotional Balance. Available at:
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Antisocial, Narcissistic, and Borderline Personality Disorders: A New Conceptualization of Development, Reinforcement, Expression, and Treatment. Available at: https://tinyurl.com/2anv8dww

The Borderline Personality Disorder Workbook: An Integrative Program to Understand and Manage Your BPD. Available at: https://goo.gl/LQEgy1

Antisocial, Borderline, Narcissistic and Histrionic Workbook: Treatment Strategies for Cluster B Personality Disorders (IPBA Benjamin Franklin Gold Award Winner): https://goo.gl/BLRkFy

Narcissistic Personality Disorder Toolbox: 55 Practical Treatment Techniques for Clients, Their Parents & Their Children (IPBA Benjamin Franklin Silver Award Winner):: https://goo.gl/sZYhym

The Clinician’s Guide to Diagnosis and Treatment of Personality Disorders: https://goo.gl/ZAVe9v

Dr. Fox has given numerous workshops and seminars on ethics and personality disorders, personality disorders and crime, treatment solutions for treating clients along the antisocial, borderline, narcissistic, and histrionic personality spectrum, emotional intelligence, managing mental health within the prison system, and others. Dr. Fox maintains a website of various treatment interventions focused on working with and attenuating the symptomatology related to individuals along the antisocial, borderline, narcissistic, and histrionic personality spectrum (www.drdfox.com).

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