How to Love Yourself Using the Love Language "Gifts" || Women's Life Coaching

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How to Love Yourself Using the Love Language "Gifts" || Women's Life Coaching

I was surprised to learn how important meaningful gifts are to me, and how much love can be expressed through them!

Is "Gifts" your primary love language? Even if not, they can still be powerful. Brainstorm some gifts you can give yourself throughout this video.

I used to think gifts were trite. Superficial. That they were given out of duty or obligation. If it's expected, I thought, it's not really love. I told myself that I didn't care about gifts, to protect my heart from feeling disappointment.

But I do adore gifts that make me feel special, especially when they're unexpected.

I was groomed by someone who showered me with gifts, which made me feel important. (Be careful, parents--others might meet your kids' unmet needs in a powerful way, and they may not have good motives.)

Gifts are powerful because things are tangible, and can create a physical experience. It brings back memories in an immediate way.

When you give gifts to yourself, it sets you free from "needing" gifts from others, like your spouse.

Ideas of gifts to give yourself: (doesn't have to cost much!)
Bath bombs
Special journals or notebooks
Articles of clothing, shoes
Books (nice hardcover versions)
Home décor or art
Candles (or anything that smells good)
Fresh flowers
Treat (like fancy chocolate)
Collecting something (I collect Ammonites)
Rocks/shells from nature

VIDEO CHAPTERS:

0:00 Welcome
02:55 My old beliefs about Gifts
09:10 Parents: Beware of groomers!
14:00 Things are tangible
20:04 Collections
24:30 Self-Love ideas using Gifts

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