Agents of the Narcissist How to Deal with Flying Monkeys

In the third part of the series Darren Magee discusses Agents of the narcissist, and how to handle flying monkeys. The abusers who carry out an agenda to continue the narcissistic abuse of spreading lies, and smear campaign, gaslighting and stalking. So how to handle the different types of flying monkey?

Different types include:

-Those who are 'ghosting', ignoring
-The malignant type who love gossip, constantly poke for a reaction (reactive abuse)
- hose who stalk, 'go fishing' for information to feedback to the narcissist, look for something to trip you up with.
-The fearful, who carry out the abusers agenda out of fear for themselves
-The naive, those who think they're helping or trying to fix your relationship

-Respond, don't react
-Act with integrity
-Be polite and measured
-Recognise when you are being provoked, withdraw if you have to
-Don't fall for reactive abuse tactics
-Be assertive, not aggressive
-Block numbers, social media if you have to
-Behave with self respect and dignity
-Don't forget why you left
-Have limited, safe, measured contact.

-Don't go looking for revenge
-Don't set out to antagonise
-Don't become the very thing they accuse you of

Most of all - STAY SAFE

Agents of the Narcissist https://youtu.be/myrHTrzmDP0

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