The 3 Requirements to have Great Relationships

The 3 Requirements to have Great Relationships....

3 must-haves for great relationships...
what are the three ingredients for your
great relationship
how can I work toward a positive
relationship that is happy and fulfilled
how can I improve my current
relationship have you ever wondered
why do my relationships or people that I
know stall or better yet flat out fail
let's break it down
when asked for more information they
would have no trouble making a list
their partner they might complain is
overly devoted to their annoying
relatives
or does not share their opinions on how
the living room is laid out
never intends to take a camping trip
every Wednesday night regardless of the
conditions plays tennis
dislikes Moroccan Cuisine or
doesn't share their love for Russian
books from the 19th century or has a
tendency to add the word really after
every second phrase even when it is
unnecessary
they sigh as the list grows longer
they still love their partner and want
to be happy together
but it just seems too difficult to
maintain this relationship
not that they've regrettably chosen a
fool as a partner but rather the fact
that we've all acquired two conflicts of
beliefs about what a relationship should
include
this is what makes people so frustrated
we are taught that love is supposed to
involve the almost complete melding of
two lives
we expect that a loving couple must
reside in the same home eat the same
meals every night share a bed go to bed
and wake up at the same time only ever
have sex with or even have sexual
thoughts about one another frequently
visit each other's families share all of
their friends and pretty much have the
same thoughts at all times
it's a lovely Vision but it's also
horrific because it imposes an
unreasonably harsh standard of behavior
on another person
we believe that a spouse must be perfect
for us in all respects if not they must
be pushed and coats into changing
but there's another way of looking at it
if we remember what ultimately makes
relationships meaningful they don't have
to be as difficult and ambitious
if we were to simplify things there may
only be three things that each of us
truly needs from the other
kindness is having a spouse that can
accept us for who we are and is patient
with our flaws
a person with whom we can be open about
our worries anxieties and issues that
throw us off balance as someone with
whom we can share our vulnerability
this person is someone with whom we
don't have to put on a good face they
are someone with whom we can be weak
vulnerable and honest and they will
reciprocate in kind
understanding is the ability to
understand certain mysterious aspects of
our minds such as our obsessions
preoccupations and World Views
and whose understanding we are eager to
gain in turn
if we have these three key components on
hand regardless of the discrepancies
that later arise in a hundred other
areas we will feel loved and essentially
fulfilled
we may not particularly enjoy our
partner's friends or routines but we
will still be happy
we are still likely to feel alone and
desolate even if we agree on every
aspect of English literature home design
and social existence yet like these
emotional commodities
we may defeat the Tyranny and bad temper
that plagues so many Lovers by
restricting what we expect a
relationship to be about
a healthy straightforward relationship
that is also highly enjoyable could come
to an end in a minimal condition in
which we don't socialize much
we may scarcely ever interact with one
another's families only occasionally
might our financial situations coincide
we might only see each other twice a
week if we live in separate cities
it's possible that we won't even inquire
too much about one another's sexual life
but whenever we were together it would
make us feel incredibly happy because we
would be with someone who knew how to be
empathetic vulnerable and compassionate
due to the fact that a link between two
people does not necessarily play out in
all the Practical aspects of life it
might be strong and significant
we can free ourselves from unnecessarily
convoluted conflicts and focus on our
pressing wants to be understood seen and
sympathized by others by clarifying and
simplifying what a relationship is about
love kindness and compassion
understanding are by far the most
important items needed for you to have a
successful relationship whether it is a
love relationship a simple friendship or
even a business relationship
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