Guy from a dating app unleashed his incel misogyny on me

Guy from a dating app unleashed his incel misogyny on me

We had 1 date and I thought he seemed really weird and awkward. I walked away not wanting to see him again, but when he asked for a 2nd date I decided I should give him another chance because first dates are always hard.

He said he'd plan bowling or something like that and then disappeared for a week, I assumed I was ghosted and was fine with that.

Then out of the blue after not hearing from him for a week, he asked me over to his place to watch a movie and said we might talk but no guarantee. So I assumed that's asking for a hookup and ignored it.

The next day he sends this text:

"You know you're almost 30 right? Most of your eggs are already dried up. That is a fact. Tick tock tick tock that is your limited value going out the window. Best of luck, you glass of aged milk. Mr. Perfect isn't out there, you're too old to be picky. Sorry for being honest. Your life sucks."

I recently broke up with a different guy and when I broke it off he said similar things.

"Years may go by before you find someone else and then you'll get to a point where you can't have kids. You might still be attractive when you're older but I mean I haven't even hit my peak attractiveness yet and won't until I'm in my 40s. But women have a much smaller window. You have a biological clock that's gonna run out."

Mind you that guy didn't even want to have kids.

I guess I'm done. I was happier single with my career, friends, family, and hobbies than I have been since I allowed these men into my life.

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