INTROSPECTION - emotional, psychological and mental self-punishment won't attract any savior

Many people unfortunately get p rogrammed that suffering like the adults in their life, and friends, co-workers and other such people is the only way. That's what a psychologically-disturbed society expects from you, so you feel powerless, and thus dependent on society to be your savior. Hence why politicians may present them so, especially during (or after) the grand events this behavior can be seen.