INTROSPECTION - afraid of losing challenges in life? | Meaning | Challenges as distractions

Being afraid of committing means being afraid of change. Afraid of change means being dead, since change is the only constant. Only sick people hate to change because in their pain, they seek comfort, and change will always have at least a bit of discomfort to it.
However, are your challenges meant to make you better, or are just another distraction or a means to attract views and attention. The latter implies lack of attention and people pleasing. Such people make a fine molding material for those who seek to control and shape people's visions and opinions.