Posing Update!

Videos don’t lie.

Instagram is full of filters and thirst traps and it’s easy to get caught up on feeling depressed and like you’re below average.

You’re not.

I know many amazing and real folks on here, but many of the “influencers” you look up to are fake.

Expensive cars with no savings, photoshopped pics or perfect angles and lighting enhanced by many takes.

Then you look in the mirror and you’re like damn, I am not at their level!

But the truth is you’re probably better in many ways. Maybe you have a fat retirement account or a really nice dog. Maybe you donate time to the local homeless shelter.

Use Instagram as a place to draw inspiration from, and don’t let what you see, only the best moments and angles, get you down.

I don’t use filters and don’t post fake stuff for this reason. This video is me, and last I checked you can’t photoshop a video. Taken on an iPhone yesterday.

I’m 41 years old, on prescription HRT through, no surgery or Botox even though my wrinkles could use it and while I’ve done well in life, many have done better and I am happy for them! I’m just out here trying to be the best me and inspire who I can!

Grab inspiration from anywhere you can but also be sure to realize that everyone doesn’t have the same strengths. Be the best YOU that you can be!