Should i let this girl know the real reason why i don't want to date her

Should i let this girl know the real reason why i don't want to date her

A few weeks ago i got matched with a girl on a dating app. Conversation went well, we had a lot in common and eventually decided to meet up.

Now, she didn't have a lot of pictures on her profile but on all of them she was pretty normal-weight.

We meet up and it becomes clear that her pictures were old: This girl had gained a lot of weight since the pictures were taken. She was not grossly overweight or anything like that - but still quite big and not really my type.

I didn't comment on it but just went along with the date. The date itself went well and we hit it off quite good but i still felt lied to and didn't really want a second date.

The girl keeps writing to me and i politely answer. I'm sure she expects a second date and i could just tell her that i didn't think the date went well (lie). Or i could tell her the real reason and maybe make her update her dating pictures so future dates won't feel lied to like i felt.

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