Will The Soft Girl Era Ruin Black Relationships?

The soft girl era is in full swing, and Black women are at the forefront of it. The term refers to a group of women who are attracted to and enjoy being with submissive men, who are also known as "soft daddies."The soft girl era is a time when women have the power and men are in need of guidance. It's an era that has been around for decades and is still growing in popularity. But, will it ruin Black relationships?
A new phenomenon started in 2019 where many black women are not just enjoying the simple gifts of life they're no longer in it to work hard. There is an abundance of black women who want to live at the beach, travel around the world, meet Europeans, and drink champagne all day. Black men want a good woman everything and can't find them anymore because most black women don't even want to work at the job they got or work on relationships or anything else. They just want to eat some sushi, walk out the door, get on a plane and never look back. This mentality is not new though, it's been spreading for decades but I'm afraid that this is causing black love to die a little bit every day and partners getting fed up with black girls who have no ambition for anything either for themselves or for their relationships and just live a soft life.

Ah, the soft White life. A vision of relaxation and luxury only seen in rare photos on Instagram posted by celebrities and rappers. I haven't been to Cancun or Ibiza (people go there? No way!) but I have been to other beaches. Suffice it to say, Black people don't have the monopoly on having fun at the beach. And yet, for some reason, there's a new phenomenon brewing amongst black women wanting to live a soft life. If leaving an office job that you could tolerate isn't crazy enough, imagine telling your man that you just want to travel and do nothing else. We're not talking about retirement here, we're talking about doing absolutely nothing at all. To have it all and leave it all behind sounds good in theory; but like most things – jumping into it unprepared is a recipe for disaster.