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Not providing even 1 exhibit in court to back up any of her claims... still got the protection order] -Now, We're passionately involved with #FathersRights *Many people are a little narcissistic, especially addicts like Us! -some more than others & some are a truly diagnosable #narcissist, #Narcissistic Personality : a disconnect between emotion & action. More specifically, folks with NPD are more prone to sufficiently ‘mirror’ people into liking them (‘mirroring’ is an act of imitating the behaviors one believes the other to find desirable in themselves), causing them to unknowingly ‘fall in love with themself.) Those with NPD have trouble identifying their own role in things, seeing how their behavior emotionally effects those around them, tracing real-life ‘effects’ back to any particular ‘causes’. Often compartmentalize &/or use some aspect, some ‘facet in fact’, to manipulate the creation of an ongoing false narrative.
Our son is being raised by a very, ‘spiritually sick’ person. Shes called her sons dad, a “rapist”! To even put that out there!?-now for Our son & who knows what he’ll ever be able to fully believe when he asks. Wondering, worried Beyond words… Never. Ever. And what else is she capable of fabricating (?) Truthfully , we’ve no idea as We’re now prohibited from even seeking pictures of him 🥺 We’ve no recent Knowledge of Our son (or her).
What We do know - & write this to acknowledge-
*Her conduct since conception has put Our son in jeopardy. Facts. This conduct, like mine before Us, is not healthy for the little one! Unfortunately I didn’t exercise much of a ‘voice’ in the relationship because, up until then, I was just ‘step-dad’, & a relatively newer one at that. Usually creating tension was best avoided, *communication was Our #1 problem & ultimately the reason I moved myself out in Nov.2020. Before that, Living at her apartment once Our son was born, I had to pick & choose where to put down the proverbial foot. Now, in hindsight, I see I made the biggest deal of her THC & #Nicotine usage while #pregnant & then while nursing our baby boy. (Bringing this up at the doctors office caused such an ‘argument’ afterwards, I was met with the silent treatment for 5 whole consecutive days.) Eventually I just bought air purifier’s for all over the house & she didn’t have to cease vaping indoors.)
Since my absence, a lot's transpired, by the grace of ‘God’ - celebrated 2 years in #Recovery from drugs & alcohol on March 17th of this year! Though it hasn’t all been great. Also suffered a psychological breakdown last year, days after Our son was taken out of our life; ultimately diagnosed with schizo-disorder & have since changed Our way of being! (Not just geographically!) 😏Stable once again & working towards a vision for life. Nermak Muzik (Bringing it back ‘round to Our son.) His entire situation couldn’t have improved as we’d hoped - based on his moms behavior alone - providing it’s a toxic environment. From discovering Muzik has premature asthma …His mothers blocked them to such an extent they can’t even get pics or updates of their only grandchild? The newest addition to Our Ohana in 30 years.
My primary concern Is the well being of my only son; We are honestly scared for Muzik Orion! Not because of any one possible health condition -Having lived in ‘her household’ for years, witnessing not just the disfunction-but the danger. (Having admittedly added to it before seriously getting help in Dec2019) Now ahe claims he’ autistic — We worry that His mom may be creating a pre-meditated ‘bad-mom-excuse-card’, one to eventually ‘whip out’ while claiming she did the best she could with raising a kid who’s, “On the spectrum”… His big sister, Our step-daughter, is actually on the spectrum - sort of - with a learning disability & emotionally stunted growth, it can be difficult for her in school & in social situations. (&claims were made that We ‘abused her’ as well) 😔THIS- breaks my heart -
Being a dad became my whole entire world before he was even born; January 2nd 2020 - Then for the first 7 months, it was Nermak Muzik for real! Dad & son time almost every day - Until We were hit by surprise with a restraining order prohibiting any more visits. That was in March of 2021.
More about Our story on Our blog DaamnTalk
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