Forgiven (Matthew 12:31-33)

When I was thinking about the section in full of verses 22-37, ( https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew%2012%3A22-37&version=CJB,MSG,NLT ) I wanted to take a moment here, because HE is telling them that their words against The Son of Man are forgivable, to go against the SPIRIT who sees us through, not so much. Which, yeah, in a relationship, it's different than out of one.
How can one speak words of hate against the source of love?
Here now or the here to come, on a deep deep deep level I'd ask, how could you want to in the first place when HE'S the reason we make it in the first place?

If there isn't a relationship there, get one! Because without it, you'll always be missing a piece to the puzzle. Much like Apollos did at first. (He was the one I was thinking about and mistook for Barnabas.