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Are there any benefits to your Filipina working in the Philippines? Working for six to eight dollars a day? I’m serious. I am under the weather today but that isn’t affecting my mind. I think it is normal and easy for a western man to tell a Filipina he is dating or even has married that she should quit her job because she is not earning much money and in fact, he can and is willing to send her a lot more to not work. I’d like to address this today. I think it is a salient question to ask: Are there benefits to your Filipina working in the PHILIPPINES?

Subscribe to Love Beyond The Sea for relationship help with a foreign woman, in my case, I have been married to a Filipina, a woman from the Philippines for four years and ten months. I have tried to put myself in her shoes and try to understand her background because I know that coming from a different culture than mine (I have been in the United States all my life), she will have different impressions than mine. Come on over to the Word Press Blog created for the channel by MrE, the link is in the description box.

I saw a comment on someone from another blog and immediately it resonated with me. It was about westerners wanting their Filipinas to quit working in the Philippines because they aren’t making much. Depending where she works, ten dollars a day would be considered a real good wage, with many, perhaps most, making half that. I can relate to that since I married a Filipina. This topic deserves a look at.

My wife immigrated to America eight months after we married in the Philippines. She was a teacher there but stopped working to focus on our relationship. I did not ask her to do this, in fact, I don’t even know what she earned. I did tell her that I would do my best to meet her needs. She has always maintained a desire to work at something to provide for her family despite the fact I can help them and love to be of help. She doesn’t want me to do all the providing however. I think it is important to consider why she might benefit by working in the Philippines. As always, I want to hear your comments. I prefer if possible, to have topics that are not overused and I think this qualifies.

What are the benefits for her working in the Philippines even if she does not make a lot? Watch the video to find out. Cautions-This does not mean that I want her slaving away working ten to twelve hours a day for little money. That would mean that we wouldn’t see each other much and I do not want that. I would not want her to work at something that was very physically demanding or where the conditions were poor. I do want her to use her God-given skills and abilities and mentality to do the things that she is meant to do. She was not made with certain skills and bents only to have them go to waste by marrying a westerner.

She is a hard worker. She has worked full-time here in America since maybe midway through 2016. She started as a temp then got full-time work. She has worked up to sixty hours a week. All this despite me working six days a week whenever I can. For anyone assuming she is living on easy street with me, she is pulling her own weight. I left whether she would work or not up to her and she wanted to do something. For those believing I am responsible for all of “The House that Aiza Built” in the Philippines, guess again. She is responsible for 75 percent of the payment for it, after I made the down payment. She is paying a lot more than we are for our house here in America. Her car payment dwarfs mine. In time she will have these paid off but she wanted to work with something to motivate her to keep working. She wants to find something to do when in the Philippines at our retirement.

Many Filipinas find satisfaction in earning some money. I am no different with my love beyond the sea.

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