How to Know When to Stop Chatting with a Filipina

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Discussion has become impossible.- For whatever reason, if your communication has stalled, you’ll need to ascertain why. It may be that the Filipina has found someone else she is more interested in. You can ask her if she is learning things about you that make her uncomfortable. Maybe her family is against your relationship, or it is possible there isn’t good chemistry.

Both of you are quick to find a fault and pounce on it.-This would be troubling. If one of you is late for a chat and that irritates the other person, that would tell me that someone is being a bit controlling.

You walk on eggshells or duck contact (or your partner does).-Like I said, initially you want to both be civil and not critical, but if you persist in giving a Filipina a chance because you like something about her, but are uncomfortable talking about certain things, then it may be time to keep looking.

Her familiar ways of acting now irritate you (or worse)-Naturally we tend to overlook some things early on, especially if we feel a connection with someone, but when he finds some things annoying about her and it is really bothering him, either he has to learn to let it go or just to let go of her.

Subtle and not-so-subtle verbal abuse has become habitual.-This is more likely to happen when the foreigner and Filipina have met and are continuing to meet in person. I would be very concerned this could continue into marriage.

She isn’t the person you turn to when you’re stressed.-This one I think goes both ways, once a relationship has been established, it would be nice to see more looking to each other for support. Filipinas tend to be shy, so this might make it more difficult for her to confide in a foreigner, it might take longer.

You spend most of your time thinking or functioning like someone- who’s single.-I am saying this as if an observer, so if I had a friend who was telling me he had this great relationship with a Filipina overseas and is bragging about her and chatting her up a lot, but then I don’t notice him acting like he wants to be more responsible in life, I would wonder if he is ready to marry her.

There’s no eye or physical contact between you.-This is more for when the foreigner and Filipina have been together in person. Why would lack of eye contact or lack of physical contact between them be a problem serious enough to scrap the relationship? It could be that there is a sense of shame for some reason, or a sense that they aren’t suited for each other, or a lack of sexual attraction.

You’re no longer acting like yourself.-If you or our family or friends notice that you are acting differently than normal, then it may be that the long distance relationship with the Filipina is to blame, or at least something about it. If the foreigner is uneasy with it or is not as happy as normal, perhaps more easily irritated or somehow there is a sense that he might have been better off before he met her, he at least needs to recognize others concerns.

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