Stalking: World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day

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World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day

https://wnaad.com/

A lot of the bewilderment felt by victims of stalking is the confusion when trying to grasp how stalkers think. This is an exploration of that pathology.

Intro: 0:00
Theories about stalkers: 2:38
Modern relationships and motivation: 5:06
Mirror transference and envy: 7:20
Regulating emotions with schadenfreude: 12:50
The danger of success: 16:04
Idealization: 21:52
Devaluation and control: 26:15
Anger: 29:26
Finding an easy target - Empathy and low self-esteem: 34:07
Identifying the manipulator: 34:07
Erotomania: 37:12
Victim Blaming: 43:39
Outro: 45:13

Resources:

World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day: https://wnaad.com/

Stalking, Threatening, and Attacking Public Figures: A Psychological and Behavioral Analysis by J. Reid Meloy, Jens Hoffmann, Lorraine Sheridan: eTextbook: https://amzn.to/3o7Rmz2 Hardcover: https://amzn.to/33IK795

The Psychology of Stalking: Clinical and Forensic Perspectives by J. Reid Meloy: Kindle: https://amzn.to/3qe0C6n Paperback: https://amzn.to/3qaoMif

Stalking: Psychiatric Perspectives And Practical Approaches by Debra A. Pinals: Kindle: https://amzn.to/2JsjMo5 Paperback: https://amzn.to/2HUalO8

The Psychopathic Mind: Origins, Dynamics, and Treatment by Reid J. Meloy: Kindle: https://amzn.to/3fOhlZl Paperback: https://amzn.to/3q9UyvK

Disorders of Narcissism edited by Elsa Ronningstam (excerpts and paraphrases from Paulina F. Kernberg): Hardcover: https://amzn.to/36hK31x Paperback: https://amzn.to/3o3gqak

A Critical Dictionary of Psychoanalysis by Charles Rycroft: Paperback: https://amzn.to/39u2stZ

The Analysis of the Self by Heinz Kohut: Kindle: https://amzn.to/2J9HshD Paperback: https://amzn.to/2JptlnM

The Psychology of Criminal and Antisocial Behavior: Victim and Offender Perspectives by Wayne Petherick, Grant Sinnamon: Kindle: https://amzn.to/2VbHfwJ Paperback: https://amzn.to/3fNwt9f

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Stalking and Psychosexual Obsession by Julian Boon, Lorraine Sheridan: Kindle: https://amzn.to/3mlc6CK Paperback: https://amzn.to/3qcTYNK

The Farther Reaches of Human Nature by Abraham Harold Maslow: Paperback: https://amzn.to/36ncKud Mass Paperback: https://amzn.to/3mjtic3

Deceit, Desire, & the Novel - René Girard: Paperback: https://amzn.to/3qdciWY

Understanding and Treating Pathological Narcissism by John S. Ogrodniczuk: Kindle: https://amzn.to/3mk5Qva Hardcover: https://amzn.to/39qbrMU

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The 7 Biggest Lies We Believe About Success by Chris W. Dunn

https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/280317

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Music:

Rossini - The Barber of Seville - Act I (First Part) European Archive

Beethoven - Violin Sonata no. 9 'Kreutzer', Op. 47 performed by Edward Auer

M.S.P. "Female patient suffering from erotomania," from Alexander Morison's The Physiognomy of Mental Diseases By https://wellcomeimages.org/indexplus/obf_images/a9/32/69bb05df1344a6e4f06d16ef7807.jpgGallery: https://wellcomeimages.org/indexplus/image/L0022720.htmlWellcome Collection gallery (2018-03-29): https://wellcomecollection.org/works/frjm5hb2 CC-BY-4.0, CC BY 4.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=35998058

Lennon autographing a copy of Double Fantasy for Chapman, six hours before the killing, Fair use, https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?curid=17327477Amy

Winehouse and the Paparazzi, Socialitelife.com

Abraham Harold Maslow (April 1, 1908 – June 8, 1970), American professor of psychology who created Maslow's hierarchy of needs By Source, Fair use, https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?curid=34062949

Alternative illustration as a dynamic hierarchy of needs with overlaps of different needs at the same time By Philipp Guttmann - Own work, CC BY-SA 4.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=52306030

Random Globe and Enquirer Magazine covers - Unknown dates.

Bleeding wound on finger by Crystal (Crystl) from Bloomington, USA - Flickr, CC BY 2.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=793034

Madonna Stalker's Wall by https://todayinmadonnahistory.com/tag/robert-hoskins/

Douglas in 2012 at a Vanity Fair party with his wife, Catherine Zeta-Jones By David Shankbone - Own work, CC BY 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=19129851