What We Learned From 12 Years Of Marriage

In this live stream, my wife and I share practical advice and lessons based on our 12 years of marriage.Show more

Chapters
0:00 - Internship Promotion
1:12 - Engagement proposal and wedding video
6:38 - Intro
8:08 - Beginning of relationship/wedding photos
12 Lessons from 12 Years
13:18 - 1. Without deliverance marriage cannot last
21:08 - 2. It is not our job to change our spouse, but obey God
30:50 - 3. Learn to complain to and not critize your spouse
36:56 - 4. Learn to understand, not to respond
39:57 -5. Learn the love language of your spouse
46:17 - 6. Date your mate
49:52 - 7. Sex is like superglue
58:15 - 8. Don't compare your marriage to other couples
1:04:14 - 9. Let your spouse grow as an individual without growing apart
1:06:44 - 10. Marriage is a priority, but not the purpose of life
1:13:11 - 11. Marriage is not 50/50 it is 100/100
1:24:27 - 12. Take 10 minute walks everyday and turn off the TV!
1:22:24 - Internship ad
Questions
1:32:39 - Can a demon be transported to you from your spouse?
1:35:02 - What if my husband was a believer when we got married but backslid?
1:36:22 - Is it okay to go to church without my husband if he doesn’t want to go
1:39:59 - How did you know he/she was the one?
1:38:05 - How do I help my husband operate as a spiritual leader?
1:40:17 - How do you pray for God to show your future spouse?
1:41:05 - Encouragement for a woman wanting to find a godly man
1:44:35 - Would God show our spouse in a dream?
1:47:32 - What if my husband is not saved?
1:48:30 - How do you deal with a lustful husband?
1:49:17 - How do you know you married the right person for you?
1:49:45 - How do my wife and I stop arguing?
1:51:19 - Should Christians always avoid marrying a nonbeliever?
1:51:33 - Is it bad to give up on a relationship when you are both in the Lord?
1:52:57 - Advice for entering a marriage with in-laws involved
1:54:05 - How do you honor an abusive husband?
1:55:47 - Internship promotion
1:57:56 - Final thoughts

Takeaway Notes From Tonight’s Stream:
👉 1. Without deliverance, marriage wouldn’t last. Freedom is the foundation of a good lasting relationship.
👉 2. It’s not our job to change our spouse; our job is to obey God.
👉 3. Learn to complain and not criticize your spouse. Complaining is sharing your feelings; criticizing is attacking the other person.
👉 4. Listen to understand, not to respond.
👉 5. Learn the love language of your spouse. Speaking the love language of your spouse is like learning a foreign language.
👉 6. Date your mate.
👉 7. Sex is a superglue in marriage.
👉 8. Don’t compare your marriage to other couples.
👉 9. Let your spouse grow as an individual without drifting apart.
👉 10. Marriage is a priority, but it’s not the purpose.
👉 11. Marriage is not 50/50, but it’s 100/100.
👉 12. Take 10-minute walks every day and turn off the TV!

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