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How To Turn Him On – 7 Tips For 2020

The one way you can be sure you’ve got a guy under your spell is if you know how to turn him on. And since I’m a guy, I can tell you better than any woman can about what it takes to turn a guy on.

Of course, when women ask me “How do I turn him on?” – what she really wants to know is how to grab his attention and make him want her like nothing else. (and no ONE else!)

If you can get him feeling that kind of sexual attraction for you, you can get almost any guy to fall in love with you.

Now at the risk of sounding over simplistic, there are two kinds of things you can do to turn him on:

- Big things
- Little things

That may sound obvious, but it’s not. First of all, the BIG things are the things you can do that are fairly obvious. Like leading him on physically, or sending him sexts. Let’s be real, it doesn’t take a whole lot to actually arouse a guy’s libido.

But once you get over the age of 30, that method of flirting with a guy can seem a little too obvious – and uncomfortable to use. You kind of outgrow it.

Some women don’t feel they have the physique to pull off texting him racy pictures. And some of the things that you might hear used in sexting just sound creepy.

I get it – they just feel like the desperate attempts of an insecure teenager. (And honestly, most of the other sites out there talk about tips that only work for desperate teenagers.) You don’t need to be vulgar to win him into your bed.

And when it comes to the little things, you might worry that he just won’t get it. He might completely miss what you’re doing. And guys are kind of oblivious to subtle flirting and seduction.

Both the little and the big things work – and that’s what I’m going to show you here in this article…

Here Are 7 Tips To Turn Him On

Let’s start with:

Sexy Turn On #1: Hit Him With The Fantasy…

It’s been said that “men think about sex about 8000 times per day.” There was even a scientific “study” that supposedly showed this.

The problem is – there is no such study. And the number 8000 is completely made up.

Yup, it’s an urban legend.

The truth is that a survey was completed studying men and women between 18 and 25 years old. (Yeah, it’s always done on college students – they’re the ones that need the beer money.) So take this with a grain of salt, since we know how college kids think.

The results of this study?

The median number of sexual thoughts for MEN was 18.6 – and for WOMEN it was 9.9.

So for the quick-and-dirty interpretation, men think about sexy-time about twice as much as women do. Which isn’t really all that surprising, is it? But it is FAR from the ridiculous 8,000 times a day number that someone made up.

The reality is that making anyone fantasize about another person is going to make them want to turn into reality after a while. If you know about my “crystallization effect” – you know that men will fall in love with women who they think about all day long.

So a great way to turn him on is to turn on his fantasy machine – his brain!

Just send him a text of a sexy dream you had about him… or a sexy fantasy of yours. And ask him to finish it…

Or send him a link to a really arousing bit of erotica online somewhere…

Or send him an email with hints about the next time you two can get together…

Don’t underestimate the power of a man’s imagination when it comes to turning him on.

Turn Him On #2: Always When You Can’t…

One of the most powerful of the lost arts of seduction is the art of TEASING a man. I talk about this quite a bit in my articles, videos, and programs for women.

If there’s one thing you must understand it’s that people really do respond to The Law Of Hard To Get. This law simply states that we want whatever we cannot have. Mother nature has seen fit to instill this in our brains since the dawn of humans.

This law is so strong, in fact, that even ANIMALS respond to the Law of Hard-to-Get!

Have you ever played with a cat before? Maybe it was a laser pointer or with that fuzzy blob on a string.

Whatever the method, you know how it works: You put the toy out there for the cat, it chases it.

This method of play also works on a man’s mind for the exact same reason.

All you do to use this one to your advantage is to ...

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