How to talk Te and Ti: Carol Linden Minds her Jungian Language (then Anecdotes)

There is also a section on TiNx-SeFx (INTP-ESFP) Communication Problems this is exemplified live in how I try to bring Jeff into the conversation.
How to talk better to TJs (Te Max) and TPs (Ti Max).
Max = Dominant or Auxilary for the function in question.