July 10, 2022

There are certain thoughts and behavior patterns that tend to sabotage relationships. Some of these patterns are obvious red flags, while others are more subtle and can be harder to spot.

You go on two or three awesome dates with someone, then—POOF!—they’re a ghost. No text, no DM, no call. Sounds familiar? Have your exes told you that you have too much baggage? Or do you keep dating different versions of the same person? Faces might change, but the relationship patterns stay the same. Think about all of the questions surrounding your relationship— where is your new relationship headed, why are they pulling away, are they cheating, will you ever meet your soulmate? So, here are five patterns that can mess up your relationships.