Are you Calvinist or Christian?

If you have to keep calling yourself a XYZ Christian, Or if you have to keep on repeating again and again and again that Christianity is equated with XYZ, Maybe you’re something else or something in addition to Christianity. I believe that Calvinism is an eisegesis, A false teaching that’s being forcefully inserted into Christianity and so widely published that it just becomes the accepted truths, with mockery for those who don’t comply. But all lives matter not just some lives and God says that he doesn’t bring suffering on anyone. He commands us to be wise not foolish to understand what the will of God is that people should be wise and righteous, it is never God’s will that something bad will ever happen. Not in the garden and not tomorrow. The answer is that the definition of God does not mean always getting what you want, like a little child. There’s no way we can demand little children to be patient with not getting what they want, but somehow God can’t do that. You have to figure out what’s your definition of good and what’s your definition of God and I think Calvinists are trying to redefine God and they’re trying to redefine words in the Bible using a dictionary definition that John Calvin himself decided on, Which was not correct. There certainly has “predestination and “but the Bible doesn’t give us an explanation of what that means. You need the Holy Spirit for that. God wants everyone to be saved but it’s ultimately their choice, but he knows who is going to choose him and those people are known by God.