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Why Is He Trying To Make Me Jealous? - The Secret Psychology
By: Carlos Cavallo
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Some women believe that men try to push their buttons. The truth however, it's exactly the opposite. If you're wondering “Why is he trying to make me jealous?” - then this article should help you understand him better.

And I will also explain what to do if he is trying to make you jealous.

Jealousy is a complex emotion that encompasses feelings ranging from suspicion to rage to fear - and even humiliation. Jealousy is most typically aroused when a person perceives a threat to a valued relationship from a third party.

And the threat may be real or imagined.

Jealousy is very strongly related to Envy.

Jealousy is one of the most POWERFUL of emotions. It comes from fear, a deep fear that connects to:

the fear of being alone
the fear of being replaced
the fear of being rejected...
Jealousy is like jet fuel for starting the fires of passion. It may not be healthy, but it sure does get things hot and heavy.

One of the most important things to remember is:

“If you have a man who is intentionally threatening the security of your relationship with jealousy on a regular basis, you must dump him fast.” - Carlos Cavallo

Absolutely, definitely, with haste. You cannot allow a man like this to create that kind of emotional turmoil.

Over a long enough period of time, this behavior will undermine your happiness and self-esteem. It will erode your self-worth. And you can even develop possible life-threatening illness.

I have known at least two people that have died from emotional and physical complications from this kind of unhealthy relationship. So please believe me when I tell you to be on your guard if you think he's doing this on purpose and on a regular basis.

A healthy relationship must be built on a foundation of consistent, healthy, stable love.

The fact is, if you suspect he's trying to make you jealous, and you do feel jealous, then yes he is trying to make you jealous on purpose.

Now let's get right into the reasons why he is trying to make you jealous...

Reason # 1: He’s Testing You
What is “testing”? It’s when we push someone’s buttons to see if they’re putting on an act.

It’s a tool for the chooser to evaluate the pursuer in romantic courtship.

And before we get started here, let's get one thing out of the way:

You test men in your relationships.

You know you do. All women do. Because you need to know if a guy is faking his confidence or is he for real!

In the words of an anonymous woman:

“Women test men when we don’t know who you really are or when your words and actions have been incongruent — when they don’t line up and something seems fishy or ‘off’ about you.”

And right you are for testing him!

Because you know that no matter what he says to you, his actions always speak the truth.

We test people in our relationships because it's instinctual. It's not a game, it's simply the way to get to the very vital truth: “Is he sincere? Or is he unreliable?”

This came from a time when we had to know we could rely on the people in our “tribe.” Back in the early days, the caveman days, your survival depended on your mate.

Sure, these days you can just get divorced, but back then it was possibly the worst situation imaginable. Alone without protection and a provider? It could even be fatal.

The truth is that most men don't test women on purpose.

(If you haven’t seen it, you should definitely read my article on why men test women here…)

But sometimes he will test you by trying to stir up your jealousy. He's doing this because he wants to figure out how he should think about you.

Girlfriend?
Booty call?
Wife material?
Cool friend to hang out with...?
Ultimately he wants to know how you handle your emotions. Because jealousy is one of the strongest emotions, and one that women fall victim to very easily. And jealousy will bring out your true colors when you experience it!

If you're insecure, you will probably act out when he tests you by making you jealous.
This might be as small as the silent treatment or as big as a huge shouting match in the middle of a crowded restaurant.

And every woman has had her share of embarrassing outbursts that she wishes she could take back.

Hey, guys do too! We just forget about them faster.

So what do you do if you think he's testing you?
The first most important thing is ...

Watch the video for the rest!

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Why Is He Trying To Make Me Jealous
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