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Is He Pulling Away From You? 10 Tips To Save Your Relationship
By: Carlos Cavallo

Has he stopped texting you right back? Has he stopped calling you? You might be wondering, is he pulling away from you?

Maybe he's just pulling back a little bit...
He isn't texting as much or calling as much...
Or maybe he's pulling back a lot...
Maybe he's completely ghosted you...
Unfortunately this situation is much more common than ever before.

And one of the worst things happens when a man does start pulling away: Usually the woman starts to go into denial.

Men are even worse at this to be truthful. Most guys don't even notice that the woman is pulling away until she’s already found another relationship. (Talk about clueless, huh?)

But you don't want to be caught off-guard. You have heightened instincts about how engaged a man is in your relationship. And you're right to trust your intuition.

The really dangerous relationship dynamic that happens is this:

He starts to pull away
You become more grateful for what relationship still remains
You start chasing him more and more
He starts to pull away more and more, and your panic increases
You can imagine where this ends up. Usually in a breakup.

Finding out if he is pulling away from you is essential if you want to save your relationship.

Just think of all the emotions you go through when you start to worry about your relationship:

Desperation
Anger
Insecurity
Fear
Panic
Your emotional state is compromised and it makes it difficult sometimes to even work or function correctly.

And then the next thing happens:

"You wonder why he would pull away from you when all you've done is shown him love and how great of a partner you are."

Sometimes this even makes you want to prove it more, so you chase and push more.

It's a deadly spiral, and it usually ends up in a breakup.

Sometimes this even creates a victim mentality for women. They start to believe that men are always “doing this” to them. They see themselves as always doing right by him, but he seems to always mistreat her.

I'll warn you up front that I'm not going to give you the usual answers in this article.

In fact, you may have to look at yourself a little bit. If I didn't show you these things, I wouldn't be doing my job.

In fact, I'd be a disgrace if I didn't tell you what men really think and feel when this happens.

You owe it to yourself to know the truth about why men pull away.

You’ve probably even heard a bunch of reasons why this is happening from all the other advisors out there:

He's a commitment-phobe (check out some of my other articles on this)

He's cheating on you (again, not that common in the first few months of a new relationship)

He's focused on work and stressed about it (this one isn't always wrong, but there's more to it)

You got a problem with communication (again, possible, but there's way more to it)

He’s gay (maybe, but not likely)

You're needy and insecure and you drove him off

He's immature and not ready for a real relationship

He’s hiding his feelings from you because he’s “scared” of his feelings (doesn't happen - this is a rationalization)

Sure, some of these things could be true. But most likely your situation is a little more complicated.

Or, then again, it might not!

One of the things I have to discuss with my coaching clients is that:

No matter how unique they think their situation is, someone has had it millions of times before.
There are no unique love problems in the world.

We all want to believe our problems are totally new and unique. We think this way because we are the ones experiencing the emotions of them.

"No one else can be experiencing this! It's MY problem!"

But the truth is completely different.

And then if you start to argue for your complex relationship problems, you start to defend them and make them unsolvable.

This is really big and you should think about that for a moment:

Are you possibly making things more complicated than they actually are?
Okay, so you came here for some tips.

Let's talk about how to handle it when you're wondering, is he pulling away from you?

But first I want to tell you why he might be doing this - reasons you might not know about:

WHY #1: He knows what it will do - and that it works
He may not be doing this to hurt you intentionally, but most guys know that when they pull away women typically rush in to pull him back to her.

And once he gets used to this pattern, it's just like ...

For the rest - Watch the video!

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Carlos Cavallo
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Is He Pulling Away From You
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