Long Distance Relationship Tips - How To Make Him Love You No Matter How Far

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10 Long Distance Relationship Tips - How To Make It Work!

A lot of people believe that long-distance relationships are a really bad idea. In fact, if you know what you're doing with a few long distance relationship tips, you can actually make it work.

As a matter of fact, long-distance relationships can work just as well and even better than regular relationships. Whatever "regular" is.

What Is A Long Distance Relationship?
One of the most important things to define is, what makes a long distance relationship long distance?

Is it the time or the actual distance?

I believe it's a little of both.

Here's my “scientific” definition:

You're in a long-distance relationship if it takes longer than 2 hours to get to the other person's house. Either by car or by plane.

Or if you feel like you're just not that close! Ultimately your heart has to agree.

If you don't feel like he's close enough for you to hold and love in person, then you are long distance.
Heck, maybe you even feel that he's just too far away emotionally. In that case, you still need to close the distance.

Things can be difficult in a long distance relationship, that's for sure. It can be lonely, a bit isolating, and sometimes sad. But in between there are a lot more high points of love.

And when you do get together finally, it's fantastic. You’ll have weathered more difficult times in your long distance relationship than most married couples ever will.

The Most Common Long Distance Relationship Problems
But first, we should take a look at a few of the things that could sabotage your long distance relationship. Take note of these:

PROBLEM 1: Not enough contact
One of the easiest things to do is to fall down on your communication with him.

This one is easy to fix, but it's also easy to screw up. Just remember that the answer is not always more communication. Sometimes it really is the quality of your communication.

This is a balance you'll have to figure out with him. You both have different requirements from each other, and probably different from almost everybody else at the same time.

PROBLEM 2: Not enough balance
Again, another problem coming in long distance relationships is when you don't keep a good balance of your regular life to your long-distance romance life.

Way back, I had a long-distance relationship with somebody that was halfway across the United States. I remember that I eventually got way too invested in it. I didn't balance all the other stuff I had to do in my life. Like exercise, self growth, etc.

It was a valuable lesson to learn.

I explain this relationship in detail and those lessons for success in my new program: “Long Distance Love.”

More on that in a bit.

PROBLEM 3: Urgent answer syndrome
Another of the big problems in a long distance relationship is expecting him to respond to you immediately every time you text.

I'll talk about this again in a little bit in the tips section, but you want to avoid getting too caught up in texting as your communication with him.

One of the ways this shows up is when you expect him to answer your text immediately.

You have to keep a realistic view of things when you're in a long-distance relationship.

He's not always going to be available for you. And you're not always going to be available for him.

So watch out for the Urgent Answer Syndrome - where you panic when he doesn't respond right away. Or he panics when you don't respond right away.

What's really happening here?

You're just falling victim to ...

For the rest - watch the video!

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Long Distance Relationship Tips
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