How To Fix A Broken Relationship - 10 Secret Steps

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How To Fix A Broken Relationship - 10 Steps You Need To Know
By: Carlos Cavallo

If there's one thing for sure, it's that you will have problems in your relationship. So you need to know how to fix a broken relationship, no matter how bad.

The good news is that if you can detect it early enough, a broken relationship can be fixed. And unlike a broken piece of pottery, your relationship will be stronger after the break has been repaired. Now you will have faith that you can weather the bad times.

This is why relationships that don't have arguments or difficult times don't have what it takes to survive.

So you may have a broken relationship right now, but that's no reason to despair. The skills you learn to fix it will last you for the rest of your life. And you will know more about your partner in the process.

You may want to hit the reset button in your relationship. It can be difficult to repair, that's for sure. But if you have faith and the right knowledge, you can overcome these challenges in your relationship with your partner.

Why Do Relationships Break Or Fail?
The simple truth is that we are humans. We're complicated. And relationships between complicated humans are even MORE complicated.

Let's go through some of the reasons that relationships can break:

REASON #1: Trust Has Left The Building
The cement of your relationship is Trust. without it, your relationship will fail.

Trust issues are very common. Trust issues usually start in our childhood.

We learn them in our families. And then we bring them into our relationships.

When we stop trusting ourselves, we stopped trusting others. And when we stop trusting others, we stop trusting ourselves. Trust is a two-way street.

Some of the bad things that happen when you lose trust are:

Infidelity
Jealousy
Anxious behavior
Smothering
Insecurities
And a whole lot more.

The first thing you need to do is to figure out whether your trust issues are because your partner is not trustable OR these are anxiety and insecurity issues inside of you.

Then you have to work on getting reconnected to your partner. I'll tell you more about how to do that in a bit.

REASON #2: Clash Of The Expectations
Expectations are the rules we set up in our brain for how we expect things to turn out.

It doesn't matter if it's a movie, or a new album from an artist, or a relationship. We have certain expectations for what we want from it.

The problem is that expectations are also one thing that breaks the easiest.

"We are almost never disappointed by something we don't have any expectations for."

Relationships, however, are something we have very distinct expectations for. When things don't turn out the way we expect them to, we get disappointed and our expectations are broken.

The most common reason a relationship will start to break down is if your expectations - or his expectations - are not met.

When your expectations butt heads, you understand the pain of a relationship.

Some people can work through these expectations that are not met and manage to negotiate their way to getting them met.

But more often than not, expectations can never be met by a person who doesn't meet your requirements. All too often we get into relationships with people that are not a good match and spend years trying to turn them into someone they are not.

When you see your expectations are not being met, check your expectations first.

If you're not willing to compromise or change those expectations, then it's time to really look at your partner.

REASON #3: Your Communication Sucks
This is another one of those very common reasons relationships start to fall apart and eventually break. If you're not communicating well, then you're not going to be able to meet each other's needs. You're always going to have misunderstandings and a deep breakdown of connection.

Communication is one of the most important factors in a relationship because -

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Carlos Cavallo
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How To Fix A Broken Relationship
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