My Sister Said I’m Jealous Of Her Unplanned Baby Because I Can't Have Kids - Reddit Stories

*FINAL UPDATE!!! At this point, I'm just posting to vent out. But damit, now my kid is the one getting problems and I am one step away from saying f-it and just quitting my job and leaving the state.

So, as people who've read my previous posts about my sister and her creepy boyfriend know, Ken (named as such since it's a close match to his real name and no, it's not Ben) is a creep that has tried to get both my sister and me for party time. I absolutely refuse to even be in the same room as that slime for more than a minute. But even with a no-contact order, it doesn't seem to hit.

After being arrested and released, not sure how he got away with the shit he did to my other sister, Mary, Ken had all but disappeared. My foster daughter Lili has become my full focus as I work to get her settled. I've even been looking into moving from my current apartment to a small house with a yard for her, and Lili is involved in the search by giving her opinions. She's also going to kinder of course and is doing really well. Still some adjustments to all the changes and she misses her birth mom, but we already have plans to visit her during Spring Break when I can get time off too.

Today I asked a mom, Tina, from kinder if they would be able to bring Lili over. She was okay with it and I gave her as a thank you some money so she and the kids could have some MacDonalds on the way back. She called me in a panic around the pickup time. Apparently, the teachers noticed a man trying to talk to Lili, but their security scare him off. Obviously, the original plan went out the window and I left work early to go to school.

Lili told her teacher and me that the man said he was a good friend of mine and had something for me. He asked her if she would like a ride home with him so he could surprise me. Thankfully Lili was more interested in a Happy Meal and said no. The teacher and I were horrified and the school cameras were immediately checked. They brought me a picture. Even though it was low-quality I am very sure it's Ken based on the picture and Lili's description. The school promised me they would reach the police and give them the security camera's video and I also went to make a report on the incident. Since I wasn't there and Lili didn't get a name, they took it as a 'John Doe' event until after they investigated.

I am just... terrified. With Karen gone, I thought Ken would leave me alone, but now he's targeting my four years old. I am just terrified thinking all the horrible outcomes if my child had not been more interested in fast food than in whatever Ken was offering. I set a rule with the school that only myself, my boyfriend, my boyfriend's mother, or Tina and her husband, who I trust, can take Lili out of the school.

Lili is now scared since she picked up on my own panic. We had a good talk about strangers and bad people, and why she should never go with someone she doesn't know anywhere. I'm getting Lili a cellphone tomorrow at first light and she's staying home at least until Monday.

I'm just... I don't know. Stressed is underrated and now I need to figure out either a safer place to live in this area with my job and my boyfriend or if it's better for me to move to Florida with my parents. Which I really don't want to do as it means a long-distance relationship, or breaking up, with my partner of six years and quitting a really good job.

Edit 1: Something to add is I can't just pack bags and move out of state on short notice. I'm still finishing the process to become Lili's full legal guardian/adoptive mom. Her birth mom's idea and we already talked with Lili about what that means. It's very difficult to move with a foster child as you have to get permission from the state, qualify to foster in your new state, and in the meantime, your foster child might be taken away. I won't put Lili through that. If all goes well, I'll have guardianship by Feb 2022.

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