Exploring sign of Scorpio, letting go to let in

Scorpio is a karmic sign, it can create fears and sudden ups and downs in a native's life particularly if you have your ascendant or Moon here. This can lead to people wanting to hold and control things, situations and people in order to cope. Planets in Scorpio absorb the sign's energy and cause further anxiety.
What would be a better use of energy is to surrender, realisation that people have a choice and you have to respect their wishes, if they don't want to be in a relationship with you, just Let Go! By letting go, learning from that experience and moving on, you open the door to receive more abundance.
I use Sidereal zodiac.