2 years ago

Insecurity.

What am I supposed to do if i feel insecure about my partner social dancing ?
They get really jealous but don't want to be the reason their partner stops doing something they enjoy.

If you want to convince yourself that there is no reason to be jealous, you could start dance classes. What you will understand in those first few classes, is that guys can't think about anything else than trying to properly do the moves taught in class for the first months/years, dance becomes really disconnected from seduction.
I'm not saying it never happens. A person dancing with your Significant other, might then go to another person twice their age, and have just as much fun. Try not to worry so much about it.

I’ve been on the other side of that coin, one ex got jealous about me dancing with other girls. All that matters is that your partner likes you and loves being with you. The most important thing is for you both to have an open communication. Your Significant other loves dancing, and loves you, I'm sure!

This is clearly bothering you, so you should let them know, something like "I have this issue here, please help me understand why you love dancing so much" and not "OMG stop dancing with other people". Because understand that ultimatums never lead to good outcomes.
Then you can work out ways to make you feel better. Maybe they can explain things in way that you understand. Maybe they only dances sensual style with close friends. Maybe you go and pick them up after each social so that people know you are together. Just try to figure out what works for you :-)

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