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What To Talk About With A Guy - 18 Tips
By: Carlos Cavallo

Have you ever been talking with a man and found yourself wondering what to say next? You wonder what to talk about with a guy…

I'll be the first person to tell you that talking to a man is really not that difficult. The problem is that you only learned how to talk to other girls. Ahem ... females, women.

We may have a lot of topics in common, but knowing how to talk about with a man is really probably more important than what to talk about with him. Still, it's not intuitive.

It's just not easy to know what to talk about with a guy.

Aren't you lucky you have Carlos?

I've been a guy in my entire life, and I've gone on quite a few dates where the woman talking to me didn't seem to have the first clue of how to talk to me.

And now that we live in the age of Covid and online dating, we have to find more ways to make those connections count. Conversation is how more relationships will start off, anyway.

So I'm going to give you a crash course in how to talk to men. We'll talk about what to talk about, and how to talk about it.

But first, we got to talk about what NOT to talk about.

Don't Talk About: Negative topics
If you are still in the first two to four dates, you need to avoid your conversation going too negative. If he brings it up, that's okay. But you don't want to stay in the negative zone for too long. After awhile it will start to taint how he feels about you.

Eventually, you will talk about these things. But there's no reason to tarnish the start of the relationship yet.

Examples:

How your life sucks
How HIS life sucks
Politics (it just ruins everything)
News

Don't Talk About: Criticism
It should go without saying that you should avoid any kind of criticism towards him on those first few important dates. After all, if you are finding things to criticize him about and feel the need to share it, you probably shouldn't be seeing him.

Pretty simple, huh?

Don't Talk About: Anyone else you are seeing
This is obviously a No-No. there's no need to discuss any one you are dating on the side other than him.

If he asks, you can politely delay this for later.

If you'd like to know how to say it to him, go check this out….

Don't Talk About: Any women from his past
Until you're in a relationship that is stable and grounded in your Love & Safety, leave other people out of it. Memories of his past relationships don't belong.

YOU are the present; stay with the present.

Don't Talk About: His money
Look, the truth is that a lot of guys run into a lot of women that are only looking at him as a source of gifts and support.

Every guy understands his obligation to provide for his family. But don't bring up the topic of his money too early. Whether that's talking about his salary, or how he spends his money.

This doesn't mean that you can't watch how he handles himself when it comes to paying for the check, of course. But there's no reason to get into his finances until much later on.

Okay now let's talk about what you should bring to your conversation with a man -

Talk About This - #1: Anything you can compliment about him
Look ladies, the sad fact of the matter is that men don't get enough compliments. At least not the right kinds.

You can't compliment a man the way you compliment a woman. He isn't really all that concerned about his choice in shoes or evening jacket. (Does anyone even care about an evening Jacket anymore?)

What a man cares about more than anything else is whether or not he has done something that is worth recognizing.
One of the most important things to a man is being approved of. When you give him approval, his heart just sings.

So a good compliment is your best starting salvo.

Compliment him on something he did well, or a decision he made.

Talk About This - #2: Talk about his Hobbies or his Passions
Guys love to talk about their pastimes. After all, there's a good chance he took a job just to pay for his Hobbies. And maybe that developed into his career.

So you can talk about his work, but even better is to talk about what he would be doing if he didn't have to work at all. In fact, you can even ask him that question to find out what's important to him.

You need to know this if you're entertaining the idea of this guy being your "one and only" someday.

Also, make sure you ask ...

Find out in the video! Watch now...

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