# 28 Greg Ellis- Fighting Pirates to Fighting for Fatherhood

Greg Ellis (@Greg Ellis ) made a splash with his role in Pirates of the Caribbean and now is a powerful voice fighting for fatherhood and exposing the corruption of the divorce courts. Follow Greg https://twitter.com/ellisgreg and check out his youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDHSukTkKie2KJuBHkFLnag
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[2:53] “Abuse has no gender,” “Depp Heads,” smashing father figures

[4:22] Candice’s point of view about abuse coming from an abused background

[7:58] how Greg got started making content for men’s rights advocacy and promoting gender equity

[10:50] evaluating calls to disrupt the nuclear clear family

[14:28] “tomorrow I vow to make better mistakes” 1% improvements every day and

[17:10] the devaluation of men and its effect on academic curriculum

[20:40] “there was an over correction” in academia

[21:07] Looking for what a school offers for your kids

[23:59] Books makes sense of our reality

[34:00] - Channeling testosterone and the results on being destructive vs constructive, the judicial system’s effect on men’s parental rights, “the great awokening” of the 2010’s.

[41:10] Paternity Laws illustrate Western ambivalence to the importance of fatherhood

[47:58] “Beyond Win-Win”, presumption of innocence in family law

[53:36] “The Body Keeps Score” discussion, stressors and traumas can show up as physical health ailments, epigenetics and stressors like war

[59:06] Divorce rates, domestic abuse allegations, societal devices, weaponization of the judiciary

[1:05:01] taking purpose away from women, monogamy and female nurturing is innate, women in business discussion

[1:12:07] little parenting moments, suffering from divorce, do the internal work so that when volatility happens you can act with grace

[1:16:45] wrap up and announcements